Let’s ignore the fact that I only posted for the first five days of Blogmas before giving up.
Happy 2016! The past year was filled with great memories. I went on my first cruise, I graduated, I went to Disney… twice, and so many other exciting adventures. I’m the kind of person who has to wait for a certain day to start anything new. Going on a diet? Wait until Monday. Want to go on a walk every day? Has to start on the first of a month. The beginning of a new year is the biggest clean slate you can get. Every year I try to make resolutions for myself and if I don’t go too overboard with my goals, I’m pretty good about sticking to them. Last year my resolutions were to write down one good thing that happened every day and to stop drinking soda – both of which were 100% done!
I have a good feeling about this year. There is a lot that I want to accomplish and I’m going to try my best to make it all happen.
A social media detox. This one’s a pretty small resolution but I think it’s much needed to take a break from Snapchat, Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter every once in a while. I logged out of everything on the 31st and my goal is to not look at any of them until Monday. So far so good.
Read more. I have a growing list of books I want to read. In 2015 I read a grand total of one book. In 2016 my goal is to read five – still not much but a big improvement.
See friends. I’m lame and ever since I started a job I’ve used that as an excuse to sleep all the time when I’m not working. I hope this year to actually make the effort to do something fun with a friend at least once per week.
Create. I want to create more. Get in touch with my artsy side. Go to a modern art museum, blog more, take pictures, graphic design, redecorate my room, color a picture, do a craft, whatever it may be. I need to spend more time doing that because it’s something I love.
Be active. Kind of broad, but I don’t want to set a goal for myself that will be too hard to keep. In general, sitting in an office all day is terrible for your health. Every night I want to do something small to help this whether it be taking a walk, doing yoga, dancing in my room to a few songs, or just stretching for five minutes.
Stay positive. Probably the most important resolution but also the most difficult. I want big changes this year. Make new friends and travel to new places. I want to think positively, be around good energy, think before speaking, stop caring what others think, stop obsessing over the small stuff, and make a difference in my own life.
Cheers to a fresh start and new beginnings.
x Alex
Love your resolutions! Im almost the same when it comes to delaying things lol.
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Yeah, I am the WORST when it comes to putting things off. Thanks for reading!
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Well done on giving up soda. Was the impact significant?
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Thanks! I didn’t drink it too much to begin with – probably a few times a week when I would go out to eat. I feel much better about myself now though knowing I’m not putting all that extra sugar in my body – although all the juice I drink probably doesn’t help either.
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Love this Alex!
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These are great! I’d love to know how your social media detox goes – what’s hard, what’s great. Is the plan to always take off the weekend, or is this a one-time deal? I’m not at a place where I’m ready to do that, but maybe someday!
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I’m on the last night of my social media detox and it actually wasn’t as bad as I was expecting! There were a few times when I opened up either the Instagram or Twitter app out of habit but quickly closed it. What makes it harder is getting notifications on your phone and not being able to look at them. This was a one-time thing but I may do it more often. I especially want to try and get in the habit of not checking social media right when I wake up. Thanks for reading!
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I love your stay positive resolution! So Important and definitely the hardest, at least in the beginning! I was thinking of a gratitude journal myself to help myself stay positive. 🙂
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A gratitude journal is a great idea! Last year I wrote down one good thing that happened every day and it definitely helped me to appreciate the little things more.
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I love the “create” goal. I feel like that I need to embrace that goal simply because I love being creative, but never allow myself the time to actually be creative.
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Couldn’t agree more! It’s something I love but I always put other things before it – even just watching a show on Netflix. That needs to change!
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Hello my english is very bad, I am from Brazil, but I liked your blog
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Thank you!
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This is great! I see more DDR in my future.
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If only we had 2 mats that worked!
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I think this is great – staying positive is the hardest thing for me in the world. If anyone can do it you can, because when you set your mind to something you seemingly can do anything.
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Love you!
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Great inspiration! Thank you for sharing your goals. This helps me focus on the fact that actually making goals allows us to be accountable and successful. Thanks!
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Thanks for reading! 🙂
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Thanks for liking my post and sharing your goals! These are inspirations to many, and are positive! Happy New Year, stay safe, and God bless!
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Thank you! Happy New Year!!
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love this. Started a similar resolution with social media- it is usually the first thing I look at in the morning, even when still in bed, so starting to not look at anything until I have journaled, had devotions, prayed or had some sort of quiet time. It is good for the soul 🙂 love your blog mucho!!!
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Thank you!! Hopefully even on Monday when I allow myself to look at all those websites again, I’ll still be able to stop myself from going on them right when I wake up in the morning.
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I completely understand what you mean by social media detox – I did this in December. The holidays and finals were taking up lots of time anyway and I usually take a break between Thanksgiving and New Years. It does help:) Thanks for sharing!
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It’s been so nice! I think I’m going to do it more often, or at least not check for updates as frequently as I did 🙂 Thanks for reading!
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You’re welcome!:)
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Good luck on that! Sure it will be a great year!
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Sure hope so, thanks for reading!
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Happy New Year, Alex! Loved reading your resolutions, and I love how you wrote them with such grace for yourself. It gets harder to follow through with our resolutions when we put such pressure on ourselves. Here’s to a year full of love and growth!
Take good care, lovely!
Sarah-Beth
http://www.growingalittlelove.com
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Thank you so much for the kind comment. I couldn’t agree more, if you set your resolutions too high it’s hard to ever accomplish them. Start small. Have a great 2016!
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Thank you, Alex! You too! Wishing you all the best for this year! ❤
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Last year, I tried writing one positive thing down every day and I failed
I did enjoy it and I thought it was helpful (I restarted over and over again, the longest I lasted was probably 2 weeks) but I didn’t manage to stick to it. Any tips on how you managed to do it every day? 🙂
Love,
Jenny
Jenny Side Up
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I just used the Notes app on my phone! I found that to be way easier than remembering to write in a diary or journal. I have a note called “2015 Moments” or something and each day right before bed I quickly wrote down (VERY briefly I think that’s key!) something great that happened that day. Thanks for reading!
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I love the social media detox idea. I also think you’ll do fine. Just remain positive and committed to your goals. You’ll be glad you did.
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Love this Ali and I love you Grams
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